{{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/27/images/1055999338.jpg" title="Do my friends hate me? The pandemic is making people doubt friendships. - T" link="https://www.thelily.com/why-isnt-she-texting-me-back-the-pandemic-has-us-doubting-our-friendships" domain="thelily.com" date="2022-12-01" tags="psychology" excerpt="For many women, friendship insecurity has gotten worse, especially during the colder months." >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/27/images/1055999171.webp" title="The Zeigarnik Effect: Why Unfinished Work Follows Us Home [comic]" link="https://blog.doist.com/zeigarnik-effect-comic" domain="blog.doist.com" date="2022-11-20" tags="productivity, psychology" excerpt="Why it's so hard to stop thinking about everything we have to get done (and so easy to forget what we've already accomplished)" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/27/images/1055999253.jpg" title="How companies made productivity a personal problem" link="https://async.twist.com/how-companies-made-productivity-a-personal-problem" domain="async.twist.com" date="2022-11-17" tags="career, productivity, psychology" excerpt="How the hell did finding the time and focus to do our actual jobs become an individual responsibility? And what can we do about it?" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/27/images/1055997756.jpg" title="LARPing your job - by Anne Helen Petersen - Culture Study" link="https://annehelen.substack.com/p/larping-your-job" domain="annehelen.substack.com" date="2022-11-17" tags="career, productivity, psychology" excerpt="A few weeks ago, I went on one of my favorite podcasts — The Ezra Klein Show — to talk about burnout, workism, and our relationship to labor." >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/27/images/1055999143.jpg" title="The Future of Remote Work is the Opposite of Lonely" link="https://annehelen.substack.com/p/the-future-of-remote-work-is-the" domain="annehelen.substack.com" date="2022-11-17" tags="career, productivity, psychology" excerpt="This is the midweek edition of Culture Study — the newsletter from Anne Helen Petersen, which you can read about here. If you like it and want more like it in your inbox, consider subscribing." >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/28/images/1055999112.png" title="Remember: What You Do Is Not Who You Are - The New York Times" link="https://www.nytimes.com/2021/02/06/style/work-life-balance-tips-pandemic.html" domain="nytimes.com" date="2022-11-17" tags="career, psychology" excerpt="The line between our personal lives and our work lives has all but disappeared. Make the effort to redraw it." >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/28/images/1055997583.webp" title="Speed matters: Why working quickly is more important than it seems « the js" link="https://jsomers.net/blog/speed-matters" domain="jsomers.net" date="2022-11-17" tags="google, productivity, psychology" excerpt="The obvious benefit to working quickly is that you'll finish more stuff per unit time. But there's more to it than that. If you work quickly, the cost of doing something new will seem lower in your mind. So you'll be inclined to do more. The converse is true, too. If every time y" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/28/images/1055999151.png" title="Feeling Blah During the Pandemic? It's Called Languishing - The New York Ti" link="https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/19/well/mind/covid-mental-health-languishing.html" domain="nytimes.com" date="2022-11-17" tags="psychology" excerpt="The neglected middle child of mental health can dull your motivation and focus — and it may be the dominant emotion of 2021." >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/28/images/1055999176.jpg" title="The Imperfectionist: Three or four hours" link="https://www.oliverburkeman.com/so/14NZw7Z67" domain="oliverburkeman.com" date="2022-11-17" tags="career, productivity, psychology" excerpt="" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/28/images/1055999179.jpg" title="Why the \"new normal\" workday should be a whole lot shorter - RescueTime" link="https://blog.rescuetime.com/new-normal-workday/" domain="blog.rescuetime.com" date="2022-11-16" tags="career, productivity, psychology" excerpt="Once we get over the practical hurdles of the “new normal” there’s a deeper question to answer: How should the workday look?" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/28/images/1055999323.png" title="How hardware and software can maximize your flow states - Stack Overflow Bl" link="https://stackoverflow.blog/2022/10/24/how-hardware-and-software-can-maximize-your-flow-states" domain="stackoverflow.blog" date="2022-11-13" tags="productivity, psychology, tech" excerpt="" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/28/images/1055999319.png" title="How observability-driven development creates elite performers - Stack Overf" link="https://stackoverflow.blog/2022/10/12/how-observability-driven-development-creates-elite-performers" domain="stackoverflow.blog" date="2022-11-13" tags="leadership, management, psychology, tech" excerpt="" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/28/images/1055999320.png" title="How to earn a million reputation on Stack Overflow: be of service to others" link="https://stackoverflow.blog/2022/10/09/how-to-earn-a-million-reputation-on-stack-overflow-be-of-service-to-others" domain="stackoverflow.blog" date="2022-11-13" tags="psychology, tech" excerpt="" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/28/images/1055999315.png" title="Two heads are better than one: What second brains say about how developers" link="https://stackoverflow.blog/2022/10/03/two-heads-are-better-than-one-what-second-brains-say-about-how-developers-work" domain="stackoverflow.blog" date="2022-11-13" tags="programming, psychology, tech" excerpt="" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/28/images/1055999311.png" title="I spent two years trying to do what Backstage does for free - Stack Overflo" link="https://stackoverflow.blog/2022/09/19/i-spent-two-years-trying-to-do-what-backstage-does-for-free" domain="stackoverflow.blog" date="2022-11-13" tags="psychology, tech" excerpt="" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/28/images/1055999305.png" title="Does high velocity lead to burnout? That may be the wrong question to ask." link="https://stackoverflow.blog/2022/08/22/does-high-velocity-lead-to-burnout-that-may-be-the-wrong-question-to-ask" domain="stackoverflow.blog" date="2022-11-13" tags="leadership, management, psychology, tech" excerpt="" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/28/images/1055999279.png" title="Great engineering cultures are built on social learning communities - Stack" link="https://stackoverflow.blog/2022/08/04/great-engineering-cultures-are-built-on-social-learning-communities" domain="stackoverflow.blog" date="2022-11-13" tags="leadership, psychology, tech" excerpt="" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/29/images/1055999275.png" title="How observability is redefining the roles of developers - Stack Overflow Bl" link="https://stackoverflow.blog/2022/07/18/how-observability-is-redefining-the-roles-of-developers" domain="stackoverflow.blog" date="2022-11-13" tags="management, programming, psychology, tech" excerpt="" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/29/images/1055999266.png" title="The Great Decentralization? Geographic shifts and where tech talent is movi" link="https://stackoverflow.blog/2022/06/08/the-great-decentralization-geographic-shifts-and-where-tech-talent-is-moving-next" domain="stackoverflow.blog" date="2022-11-13" tags="leadership, management, psychology, tech" excerpt="" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/29/images/1055999265.png" title="Remote work is killing big offices. Cities must change to survive - Stack O" link="https://stackoverflow.blog/2022/06/06/remote-work-is-killing-big-offices-cities-must-change-to-survive" domain="stackoverflow.blog" date="2022-11-13" tags="leadership, management, psychology, tech" excerpt="" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/29/images/1055999252.png" title="Empathy for the Dev: Avoiding common pitfalls when communicating with devel" link="https://stackoverflow.blog/2022/04/25/empathy-for-the-dev-avoiding-common-pitfalls-when-communicating-with-developers" domain="stackoverflow.blog" date="2022-11-13" tags="leadership, psychology, tech" excerpt="" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/33/images/1055999121.png" title="Why are video calls so tiring? You might have opposing cultural styles - St" link="https://stackoverflow.blog/2021/02/11/why-are-video-calls-so-tiring-you-might-be-misreading-cultural-styles" domain="stackoverflow.blog" date="2022-10-16" tags="psychology, tech" excerpt="" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/33/images/1055999130.jpg" title="E-mail Is Making Us Miserable | The New Yorker" link="https://www.newyorker.com/tech/annals-of-technology/e-mail-is-making-us-miserable" domain="newyorker.com" date="2022-10-16" tags="psychology, tech" excerpt="Cal Newport writes about the history of e-mail as a form of mass communication, and the ways in which it has proved an ineffective tool both for our working and personal lives—an excerpt from his forthcoming book, “A World Without Email.”" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/34/images/1055997554.jpg" title="A Teenager’s View on Social Media | by Andrew Watts | Backchannel | Medium" link="https://medium.com/backchannel/a-teenagers-view-on-social-media-1df945c09ac6" domain="medium.com" date="2022-08-22" tags="psychology, tech" excerpt="I read technology articles quite often and see plenty of authors attempt to dissect or describe the teenage audience, especially in regards to social media. However, I have yet to see a teenager…" >}} {{< bookmark-card image="/bookmarks/page/35/images/1055997735.gif" title="“Diversity of Thought” without Diverse Representation is Status Quo | by Mi" link="https://medium.com/awaken-blog/diversity-of-thought-without-diverse-representation-is-just-status-quo-e1ae56edda74" domain="medium.com" date="2021-05-19" tags="career, psychology, tech" excerpt="At some point along our journey, some of us seem to have lost the core purpose of Diversity, Inclusion, and Equity. In the last 2–3 years, I’ve observed the phrase “Diversity of Thought” gain…" >}}